We start at the end of Oct and do the heavy lifting before the holidays. Thanksgiving week is off. The last two weeks of December are off. We spend group sessions doing the work and 1:1s tailoring your systems to the way you work, think, and want to live.
[ Somewhere along the way ]
You learned that structure would kill the wild thing in you.
School bells. Corporate policies. The planner that made you feel like a failure by Wednesday. So you tried to tame it yourself.
Routine and habit formation become a method of controlling and managing our body, finances, tasks, and creativity.
[ And yet ]
Walking away from all of it didn’t set you free either.
Maybe you quit the 9-to-5, ditched the compulsive routines, or stopped trying to optimize every second of your life.
Good. Plenty of it deserved to go.
But some good stuff went out the door with it. The bedtime. The clear desk. The hour you could count on. Now every day starts from zero, and you’ve been calling that freedom.
The untended logistics become an excuse not to execute on the dream.
[ Here’s what the season holds ]
90 min Private Monthly sessions (4 total)
1:1 Sessions
We'll start out by mapping the full ecosystem of your life: systems, somatics, and soul. You'll emerge with a deep understanding of where to focus your attention, and a custom plan for the work ahead. Each month we'll use these calls to tailor the program to you, and work through what's coming up in your mind, emotions, and behavior.
weekly 2-hour work parties (12 total)
Each week we'll meet as a group to build out the systems we need. This is not a lecture, it's a work session. You will leave with things completed and functional. We'll be building intelligent systems for your finances, tasks, home, and metabolic health.
tools, guides, and instructions
The Field Kit
Recipe cards, not lectures
Short guides, screen recordings, and instructions for the practical bits: setting up your second brain, bricking your phone, the subscription hunt, your first automation. Stuff you don't need to sit on a Zoom call to do.
[ The heart of Wild Order · 1:1 with Zoë ]
Your money, your body, your home, your work. Every one of them is a relationship.
Structure gives it a shape. Attention keeps it alive.
They aren’t things you’re in charge of. The right systems and structure can help you come back to the relationship. Learning to pay attention and participate differently is what helps you stay in it.
Every month, just you and me, we’ll look at three things
01
Most of us walked away from the logistics to feel free, and only came back once things got messy, ready to control them.
02
Every part of your life, just like a person, wants to be related to, not managed. We get curious about the relationship you actually want.
03
The small daily ways you keep leaving. We start with behavior, and let the new evidence change whatever needs to change on the inside.
The family of things
Your life is an ecosystem.
You are its steward, not its master.
And your ecosystem is part of a larger one, the family of things. Most of us treat our money, our tasks, our creativity, and our home as separate things, each one a problem to interface with on its own.
Wild Order helps you come back into relationship with the ecosystem, instead of trying to fix and mange it.
[ What it’s for ]
When you know basecamp is solid, you take bigger risks out in the field.
I used to live in a car, have $40k in debt, be addicted to prescription sedatives, and have zero real friends. Now I have an incredible community, delightfully cozy home, steady income, and a genuine sense of deep self-respect.
I'm still very human. I have spirals, insecurities, and edges.
Yet my life has changed dramatically since focusing on the systems and structures that reclaim my bandwidth from survival mode.
The time you get back isn’t for more output.
It’s for more intimacy and wildness.
Fit
This is for you if…
You've noticed the backlog is starting to interfere with your creativity, your romantic life, or your energy levels.
You’ve treated structure as the thing that would flatten your spirit, and you’re starting to suspect that story is costing you.
You privately know that you're operating at 2% of your full power, even though many people perceive you as high-functioning and capable.
You feel called to aspects of spirituality, yet cringe at what often feels like performative BS or fluffy dissociation in a tasseled cape.
You hate tedious obligatory paperwork, you're forgetful of things you consider mundane, and it's hard to start once you feel behind.
This is not for you if…
You want a fast-fix, crush-your-goals productivity overhaul.
You’re looking for a template to buy and never open.
You aspire to boss-babe life-hack optimization culture
You need streaks and dashboards to feel like it’s working.
You're looking for therapy to talk about your problems.
You won’t touch AI. Claude Pro ($20/month) and Notion (free) are part of the digital system you'll learn.
[ From people who’ve done the work with me ]
-David, previous student
-Dani, previous student
-Riley, previous student
[ Every week, in the work parties ]
Seven things, finished. Seven ways back in.
01
1:1 with Zoë
You can see your whole life on one page, and you know where to start.
02
The body
You go to bed on purpose, instead of when the scrolling finally lets you go, and you have energy all day.
03
Attention
It’s a dangerous time to be distracted. You get your attention back, so you can stay present with the task at hand and with the rest of your life.
04
The mind
Every open loop out of your head and into a place your brain trusts. Your mind stops being the filing cabinet, so it can go back to making things.
05
Life admin
The inbox, the subscriptions, the forms and calls you’ve been avoiding. We clear what’s piled up, so it stops pulling at you in the background.
06
Money
You open your bank app without flinching, and you know what you can afford.
07
Home
Your home and your inner world are always mirroring each other, feeding off each other. Tend the space you can touch, and order starts to find its way inside.
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The whole point
[ Your investment ]
Seven seats. One season.
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Oct 26-Feb 15 · 4 private 90-min 1:1s · 12 Live Weekly Workshops
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Wild Order teaches digital systems that run on Claude Pro ($20/ month) and Notion (free version).
You are under zero obligation to keep using those tools, and I'm going to encourage you to use them for a month and learn what's possible.
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